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By Tonatiuh (Sun Apr 13, 2008 at 08:33:27 PM EST) (all tags)
Applying for new jobs.

Learned how to negotiate a job offer (yeah, right).

London Marathon.

Opera.

The Chilean exiles in London.



Job front:

Typical conversation with work agencies:

Agent: we have this wonderful opportunity working for the best company in X industry.

Me: Did you read my CV? Been there, done that, got the T-shirt...

Agent: Blah, blah, blah ..they are the most respected company in the field ... Blah.

Me: How much?

Agent: £(X)

Me: I used to earn £ (1.3 * X) . Many thanks for your time...

I may have to become an entrepreneur, the only problem is that I have nothing to sell.

My previous employer kindly offered, for free, the services of a company that helps during this "transition".

When offered help with my CV I pointed out that I  used to interview people in my previous jobs. Since I was not believed (something in the eyes of the advisor told me she wasn't having none of it) I produced my CV. She told me, sheepishly, that such advice would not be necessary...

Learning to negotiate job offers was more instructive, but most people saw themselves in a position of weakness in respect to prospective employers. With such an attitude they will struggle....

Opera front:

I also went to a performance of Hampstead Garden Opera ( http://www.hgo.org.uk/ ) which was charming and engaging in an eccentric English way.

Not to say that the performance was not good, it was actually quite good, but the Quixotic nature of the endeavour (opera performed in top of an old pub) is quintessentially English, a feeling further deepened after having a meal in the pub surrounded by all the regular pub goers.

The three leading ladies were very good singers and very good looking (one of them very thin and fragile, long wavy hair, very fine delicate features: I am in love, the other one a Polish lady with the deepest blue eyes I have ever seen: I am in love, and the third one a mezzo with a very wholesome figure that sung wearing a very sexy dress and what an stupendous voice: I am not in love but would not say no to her).

The tenor in the main role seemed handsome and dashing (according to the popular opinion of the female concert goers) and had a decent voice.

So if you are in London and remotely interested in opera this could be something for you.

Finally I spend my weekend in a workshop for aspiring writers. No, I am not an aspiring writer,  but I was kindly invited to attend by an acquaintance and decided to go.

The experience was most moving, the group was formed mostly by distinguished Chileans that had to flee Chile when the beast called Augusto Pinochet raised to power. As you can expect they are all very politically aware, and have points of view built with pain and blood (literally) during incarceration and forced exile, but they still manage to be humorous and fail to be bitter.

At the end of the workshop some of them read poems written by themselves or by poets like Fedrico Garcia Lorca, Cesar Vallejo or Pablo Neruda.

Sheer beauty in the simplicity of words, we could have stayed there for hours and time would have continued to flow away unnoticed....

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weakness wrt employers by Merekat (4.00 / 1) #1 Mon Apr 14, 2008 at 03:51:19 AM EST
It isn't a good idea to seem weak in front of an employer, but I've been more put off by candidates that come across as arrogant wankers who think they'll be doing me a favour for working for me, than someone a bit nervous. Interestingly, there has been, ime, a strong correlation between the arrogant wanker stance and the CV full of half-truths or self delusion.

In short, by all means be confident as long as you have the skills to back it up:)



Depends by R Mutt (4.00 / 1) #2 Mon Apr 14, 2008 at 06:13:51 AM EST
The City has its own particular subculture, even for I.T.. An attitude that might be considered borderline psychotic elsewhere can be considered just the right stuff by a City interviewer.

On the other hand, City employment is quite cyclical. Expectations you've formed in a boom may not be realistic in a bust.

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City by gpig (2.00 / 0) #3 Mon Apr 14, 2008 at 12:10:59 PM EST
The City has its own particular subculture, even for I.T.

Indeed. Knowing a couple of folks who work there, it seems that because people who work in finance tend towards arrogance and wankerishness, they think this is normal and don't want to employ anyone too far from their standards.
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There's borderline psychotic by Merekat (2.00 / 0) #4 Mon Apr 14, 2008 at 01:09:34 PM EST
And then there's borderline psychotic claiming a CCIE who can't tell you the BGP best path selection algorithm and instead tries to persuade you that 'nobody' uses BGP.

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You are correct. by Tonatiuh (2.00 / 0) #5 Mon Apr 14, 2008 at 07:30:25 PM EST
I did not mean that one has to be a PITA-arrogant-know-it-all during job interviews, which really are a negotiation, in which one should not be afraid to put the company in the spot light as well to ensure no nasties remain unmentioned.

After all if they did not need somebody they would not be going to the pain of talking to one :-)

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